Motherhood isn’t meant to be approached like a ‘one size fits all’ t-shirt. It’s messy, it’s raw, it’s exhausting, it’s exhilarating, but mostly it’s unique. In fact, motherhood is as unique as the individuals who we share it with and we shouldn’t want it any other way.
On Motherhood…
First time holding my firstborn son Thomas born via natural childbirth and VBAC
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that natural childbirth is the best method for delivery and are glad that you made that choice for your birth plan.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that every mother should have the right to choose her own birth plan and that not every mom wants to go through birth without an epidural and sometimes a c-section is a better option for mom and baby.
I get it.
Holding my precious newborn baby Lyndsey born via c-section
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly in vaccinations for your children and are glad you made that choice.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that vaccines aren’t for your child or every child and you are glad you made that choice.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that breastfeeding is best for all babies because you believe breast is best.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that breastfeeding doesn’t always work for everyone for a variety of reasons and sometimes you have to choose formula over breast milk because you know fed is best.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that organic and non-GMO foods are the only foods your family should eat.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that eating a well-balanced diet is the best for your children and organic and non-GMO isn’t always convenient or affordable for your family lifestyle.
I get it.
My son Zachery pouring crackers ‘all by himself’!
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that TV and video games should be limited to short intervals and should only be educational for the development of your child.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that TV and video games have their place in your children’s lives and it has often allowed you to get some much-needed rest so you could feel like a better well rested Mom and sometimes you have to just choose your battles with your kids.
I get it.
Sometimes the bathroom is the only place we get ‘me time’!
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that homeschooling is the best form of education for your child.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that public schooling is the best form of education for your child.
I get it.
My daughters spring choir concert for her school
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that going to church and following your religious beliefs is the best way to teach your children right from wrong.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly that you don’t need religion in your life to teach your children the difference between right and wrong.
I get it.
My daughter Lyndsey on her blessing day
Dear Mom,
You believe that staying home with your children is the best decision for your family and know that you wouldn’t have it any other way.
I get it.
Dear Mom,
You believe that having a career is the best decision for your family and know that you wouldn’t have it any other way.
I get it.
Dear Mom, You believe that staying home with your children is the best decision for your family and know that you wouldn't have it any other way. I get it. Dear Mom, You believe that having a career is the best decision for your family and know that you wouldn't have it any other way. I get it.
Making Christmas cookies with my kids is a tradition!
Dear Mom,
You believe very strongly.
I get it.
Keep on believing in your beliefs. You do you. No matter what others say, you know what’s right for your family. Instead of tearing each other down, let’s build each other up. Let’s stop being our own worst enemies.
The change you find is within you. Start there and move forward. For many of us, our beliefs are a big part of who we are, but that doesn’t mean all other beliefs are wrong, just different than your own. Educate others when needed, give advice when appropriate, offer a helping hand to those in need.
For many of us, our beliefs are a big part of who we are, but that doesn't mean all other beliefs are wrong, just different than your own. Educate others when needed, give advice when appropriate, offer a hand to those in need.By focusing on what really matters we can then improve the lives of our own families within our own homes and be a source of light and a beacon to others seeking solace.
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As the founder of Why Not Mom; a unique online directory of mom-owned boutiques and mom-invented products, Tonia has strived to create a unique organization of female business owners, creating a diverse network that assists each other in driving more business to one another, in addition to providing tools and resources to achieve success in their business endeavors. It is her passion to make Why Not Mom the world’s largest online directory of women-owned businesses in the pursuit of strengthening families and supporting small business owners worldwide.
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